Monday, March 16, 2009

Tagged Lagi

sekadar gambar hiasan

2. Take the Personality Quiz
3. Copy Paste the result to your blog
4. Tag your friend


Asyik kena tagged je. Ok la....fish dah masuk quiz tu.....rasanya macam betul je dia punya review tentang kehidupan fish....hahahahahahaha...ada yang tak betul


Your view on yourself:

You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.


The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.


Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.


The seriousness of your love:

You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?

Your views on education:
You may not like to study but you have many practical ideas. You listen to your own instincts and tend to follow your heart, so you will probably end up with an unusual job.

The right job for you:

You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:

You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.

What are you most afraid of:
You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.

Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Kasih Terpisah

Adakah bunga bunga cintaku akan kembali mekar atau masih berduri didahannya?

"Perpisahan seringkali terjadi dalam hidup. Adakala apa yang dirancang dan dijanjikan hanyalah sekadar pelengkap kebahagian dan seringkali kita tak dapat mempertahankan apa yang dijanjikan. Bersediakah kita untuk menerima kehadiran cinta? Kita seringkali membayangkan sesuatu yang indah bila bersama tetapi tidak terfikir akan suatu masa nanti kita mungkin bersendirian. Sejauh mana kita mampu bertahan bila bersendirian, bila kasih tiba kita lupa. Lupa akan adanya perpisahan kelak........."

Kasih Terpisah - Idayu

Adakah engkau
Dapat merasakan apa yang ku rasa
Tentang apa yang telah terjadi
Oh inikah suratan yang ku terima kini

Bukan salah diri mu
Bukan kau pinta semua kan terjadi
Kerna hati ku mencinta
Semua terlukis rasa yang kecewa

Andainya kini
Dapat ku ulang semua kisah silam
Pasti ku akan menyayangi mu
Selamanya hingga ke akhir dunia

Tapi apakan daya
Terpisahlah jua kita akhirnya
Pengorbanan mu pada diri ku
Tak pernah ku hargai


Sukarnya untuk merubah
Sukarnya untuk ku melupakan
Kenangan bersama telah tersurat
Ku layari bahtera ku ini
Akan ku teguh

Ingin lagi ku bersama
Ingin lagi ku peluk
Walau sesaat cuma
Walau di maya kau menjelma
Untuk bermesra
Pasti tak bisa
Kembalikan diri mu

Adakah engkau
Tak akan melihat ku di sini
Bukan ku rayu untuk simpati
Tapi maafkanlah

Kerana kesilapan itu
Takkan kau lupakan
Pasti ku ubah segalanya

Friday, March 6, 2009

Jangan Mengalah.....Percayalah


"Seringkali kita terlalu banyak pilihan dalam mencari cinta sejati. Tapi cinta seorang lelaki sukar untuk ditagih dan diramal. Kadangkala kita boleh memilih yang mana kita suka, tetapi belun tentu kita disukai oleh orang lain. Ternyata sukar untuk membuat pilihan, takut terpedaya dan takut untuk kecewa.Bukan mudah untuk menagih cinta seseorang dan bukan mudah untuk mengembalikan rasa cinta setelah kecewa."

"Jika ada peluang kedua sekalipun berfikirlah dahulu sebelum membuat sebarang keputusan. Terkadang kita terlupa yang kita mungkin akan kecewa lagi. Mungkin peluang kedua akan membawa bahagia? Kita sendiri tak pasti, tak pasti samaada keputusan yang dibuat betul atau tidak. Yang pasti kehidupan, jodoh, ajal dan maut segalanya ditangan tuhan. Hanya DIA yang menentukan segalanya....."

Percaya pada cinta, percaya pada ketentuan Tuhan.......yang indah pasti akan menjelma

Karena Ku Sayang Kamu - Dygta

Seandainya, kau ada disini denganku,
mungkin ku tak sendiri
Bayanganmu, yang selalu menemaniku,
hiasi malam sepiku
Ku ingin bersama dirimu

Ku tak akan pernah, berpaling darimu
Walau kini, kau jauh dariku
‘kan s’lalu ku nanti, karena, ku sayang kamu

Hati ini, selalu memanggil namamu,
dengarlah melatiku
Ku berjanji, hanyalah untukmu cintaku,
takkan pernah ada yang lain

Adakah rindu dihatimu, seperti rindu yang ku rasa
Sanggupkah ku terus terlena, tanpamu di sisiku
ku ‘kan s’lalu menantimu
‘kan s’lalu ku nanti, karena, ku sayang kamu

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Kena Tag

marah ni.......

Perlu ke nak jawab tag ni.....mmm....jawab je la nak wan camna dah kena tag huhhuhuhuhu... dulu kena gak tag. Tak dapat nak jawab sbb sibuk. Kali ni kena jawab, kalau tak ada org cakap tak berani plak. Ok la....fish jawab

1)kegunaan lain alat2 dibawah:
a) Anak Kunci
- buat kunci pendua (kes masuk umah org lain.....hahahaha)
b) Penutup Pen
- tutup pensil plak
c) Botol Mineral
- recycle balik.....dapat duir wooooooo.....
d) Paper
- buat kraftangan hias umah (adik2 suka ni).
e) Seluar 'D'
- buat hadiah kat org lain boleh gak.
f) Lesung batu

- buat baling laki (kes gaduh rumahtangga - amaran anda dilarang melakukan aksi ini dirumah)
g) langsir
- buat sarung bantal pun ok gak
h) Komputer
- jual balik......lagi banyak dapat duit woooooo
i) Duit syiling
- sedkah je kat org kalau banyak sangat
j) Laman Blog
- mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.........

2) personal tag
[1] your full name n nick? @@>> Zaidi Mat Zain aka Abangikan aka fish
[2] single or taken? @@>> single.. n available....waaaaaaahhhhhhhh
[3] hotlink, celcom, digi or Umobile? @@>> maxis & celcom
[4] indoor or outdoor? @@>> indoor
[5] are you thinkin bout someone rite now?? who? @@>> ntah...tak terpikir plak
[6] sushi or roti canai? @@>> roti canai
[7]have u fell in love with 2 person in one time? @@>> ntah....rasanya ramai kot...hahahaha
[8] flipflop or sneakers? @@>> sneakers
[9]what do u tink bout me? @@>> caring (caring ke?)
[10] 5 person u wanna tag with dis ques?? @@>> tak yah la......

Monday, March 2, 2009

Tiada Batasan Sayang


"Tanya pada diri sendiri apa yang kita mahukan"

"Tanya pada diri mengapa harus ada simpati"

"Tanya pada diri mengapa begitu ukar melupakan"

"Tanya pada hati masihkah ada sekelumit cinta untuk dirinya"

"Tanya pada hati masihkah ada secebis sayang untuknya"

"Tanya pada hati haruskah berdiam diri..."


"Malam ini janggal ku rasakan
Sendiri melalui detik yang sedih perit sekali
Pertama kali bagi ku hitung bintang seorang diri
Dan pertama kali jua maruah ini di persenda
Oleh insan yang ku cinta oleh insan yang ku sayang
Kini bermusuhan......."

"Jika ku imbas kisah lama semua nya indah semua
Pernah jua kau menangis bila aku menduga mu
Kuat nya kasih mu pada aku di ketika itu..."

"Kau menyinta kerna apa
Kau menyayang ada makna
Kau berubah ada penyebab nya......."

"Walau apa sekali pun yang terjadi, perasaan sayang tetap ada cuma tak nampak oleh mata kasar hanya mata hati yang berkata kata. Tenangkanlah hati, fikirkan jalan terbaik untuk menghadapi sebarang situasi. Kewarasan boleh tergugat jika kita tidak berfikir dengan bijak, bangun dan oraklah langkah demi kebahagian sendiri. Jangan mengalah kerana sayang tiada batasannya....."

Thursday, February 26, 2009

Kita Yang Tak Sempurna


"kadang-kadang tuhan mematahkan semangat kita untuk menyelamatkan rohani kita...... kadang-kadang tuhan mematahkan hati kita supaya diri kita menjadi satu......... kadang-kadang tuhan memberi kita kesakitan supaya kita lebih kuat.. kadang-kadang tuhan memberi kita kegagalan supaya kita belajar merendah diri.. kadang-kadang tuhan memberi kita penyakit agar kita lebih menjaga diri.. kadang-kadang tuhan mengambil semuanya dari kita supaya kita tahu menghargai pemberian tuhan kepada kita... BUATLAH PERANCANGAN TAPI FAHAMILAH TUHAN YANG MENENTUKAN"
"seringkali kita terperangkap dengan situasi yang tidak kita jangka. Hadapilah dengan tenang, kerana tuhan sentiasa menduga kita kerana manusia seringkali leka dan seringkali terlupa. Terlupa bahawa kita hanya manusia biasa, manusia yang tak sempurna"

Monday, February 23, 2009

10 Essential Tips To Change Your Life


If we don’t change, we don’t grow. If we don’t grow, we aren’t really living.
Gail Sheehy

You need to change in order to grow. You can’t grow if you just stay where you are. You can’t grow if you don’t change the way you think and act. In fact, changing your life is a continuous process. It never ends. The moment you stop changing, you stop growing.

I’m not saying that I know everything about changing life. I’m still learning myself. But here I’d like to share with you what I have learned so far.

Here are ten tips to change your life:

1. Slow down

To change your life, you need time to think and reflect. If you are always busy, you won’t have the time to think about your life let alone taking action to change it. You won’t have the room to apply the tips below. So slow down and make the room for change.

Slow down and enjoy life. It’s not only the scenery you miss by going too fast - you also miss the sense of where you are going and why.
Eddie Cantor

2. Be willing to change

Willingness is essential. It’s your life; nobody can change it but you. If you aren’t willing to change, then nothing in this world can make you do so.

To build the willingness to change, first you should realize that your life can be better than it is now. No matter how good your life is, it can always be improved. On the other hand, don’t feel hopeless if your life doesn’t seem good right now. You can always change your life for the better.

3. Accept responsibility

Accepting responsibility for your life is a must. Don’t blame other people for the bad things that happen in your life. Don’t blame your family, friends, boss, or the economy. Whether your life goes up or down depends on you and you alone. Once you take the responsibility, real change is within your reach.

We immediately become more effective when we decide to change ourselves rather than asking things to change for us.
Stephen Covey

4. Find your deepest values

Deep down in your heart, there are some principles that you know is true. Take the time to find them. What do you think is the most valuable thing in life? What principles do you think you must follow to live a fulfilling life? These are the values you need to align yourself with. Find them and remind yourself constantly about them.

5. Find your cause

Change is not easy because there is inertia you need to overcome. Just like a space shuttle needs a powerful rocket to overcome the Earth’s gravity, you also need a powerful source of energy to overcome the inertia to change. Your cause is the source of energy you need. Your cause can give you the strength to overcome the inertia. To find your cause, find what matters to you.

6. Replace limiting beliefs with empowering beliefs

Limiting beliefs are among the biggest obstacles that hinder you from changing your life. You need to identify them before you can effectively handle them. To identify your limiting beliefs, observe your mind for thoughts that contain phrases like:

  • “I can’t …”
  • “I won’t be able to …”
  • “I will always be …”
  • “There is no way …”

Whenever you find one, write it down. After some time, look at your list. These are your limiting beliefs.

After identifying your limiting beliefs, you need to replace them with empowering beliefs. Write positive statements that counter the negative ones you wrote before and make positive affirmations using those statements. Do it whenever you realize that a limiting belief is at work.

7. Replace bad habits with positive habits

Besides identifying limiting beliefs, you should also identify bad habits you have. Are there habits that drag you down? Are there habits that you know you need to break? List them all.

Then, rather than focusing on breaking those habits, focus on creating new positive habits that replace them. For example, let’s say the bad habit is watching too much TV. Rather than focusing on reducing your TV time, you should focus on building a positive habit that will use the time in a better way. For instance, you might want to build the habit of reading.

8. Find a mentor

Finding a mentor can greatly help you improve your life. Not only can your mentor give you advice on what to do in certain situations, he can also warn you about possible pitfalls in your path. Without a mentor, most likely you will have to learn many lessons the hard way. Having a mentor will save you serious amount of time.

Getting a good mentor is not easy though. In many cases, you can’t just expect someone to invest his time in you for nothing. At the very least, you should show that you are an open-minded and teachable person. Furthermore, try to be useful to your mentor. Help him in any way you can to make his job easier. This way you send a message that you are a serious mentee that is worth investing in.

9. Have the right expectation

Having the right expectation from the beginning is important. Otherwise, it’s easy for you to be discouraged when things don’t go as expected. Change takes time, especially if you want the change to last. Having the right expectation prepares you to be persistent in difficult times.

10. Maintain the momentum

The most difficult part is always the beginning. Once you go through it, things will become easier if you maintain the momentum. Just think about pushing a car. The most difficult part is getting the car to start moving. Once it’s moving, pushing it will be easy as long as you don’t let it stop again.

Similarly, you should keep improving your life. Change your life day by day. As the quote above says, if you don’t change, you don’t grow.